"Our actions create our lifeβ¦ Agree? Our thoughts create our actionsβ¦. Agree? Our thoughts are communicated to us in the form of languageβ¦. Agree? Soβ¦how can we live our largest, most expressive and most loving life if we are using vocabulary that makes us smaller, weaker and discouraged. Do you know anybody, maybe even yourself, who loves to use phrases like: βThis only happens to meβ, βLifeβs a b*tchβ, βI caaaaaaaaanβt!β, βNever!β, βI just canβt winβ, βIβm damned if I do and damned if I donβtβ. The biggest problem with these phrases is not that they are negative or self centered, itβs that they stop you from taking action. Phrases like this paralyze us and fool us into thinking that we have no power and no choice. Which is nonsense. What if our words always made us and who ever we are talking to feel inspired, empowered and re-energized?" Read on ... http://everydaypowerblog.com/2013/04/23/top-5-words-to-delete-from-your-vocabulary/